怎样变得人人都想与你做朋友

有些人,你跟他们在一起就是纯粹的快乐,感觉不到竞争、攀比,完全值得花时间跟他们在一起。这样的人是具有 growth mindset 的人,坚信事物是动态发展变化的,不争一时短长。

与 growth mindset 相反的是 fixed mindset。具有 fixed mindset 的人善于攀比,“此刻我比你强,我就永远比你强”,或 “你如果暂时比我强了,你就永远比我强了,我不能让这样的事情发生,所以我得竭尽全力把你拉下来”。应避免跟这种 fixed mindset 的人在一起。

“By adopting a growth mindset, you can put a stop to the epidemic and inspire others to grow with you. So take yourself less seriously because your imperfections are the things that people really connect with.”

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Arnold Knegt

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